Financial domination, also known as findom, is a fetish lifestyle in which a submissive (money slave, finsub, paypig, human ATM, or cash piggy) provides a financial dominant presents and money. Other BDSM and d/s relationship activities, such as erotic humiliation, are frequently present, but there is often little more intimacy between the participants. Although the dominant and submit may communicate purely through the internet, it is not commonplace for the submissive to accompany the dominant while shopping and paying using the subordinate’s money.
Individual relationships of this type may be comparable to, but distinct from, interactions based on total power exchange. In the latter, the submissive may give the dominant all of their saved and earned money, as well as many other parts of their autonomy, and it is very uncommon for both partners to have an emotional relationship, which is in direct opposition to the financial dominance dynamic. There are a few people who do findom at such a high-level, that they become famous for it. And here are the most famous findom users from all around the world:
Mistress Marley- https://twitter.com/eyesxonfire
Mistress Marley, a native of North Carolina, became a sex worker after finding it difficult to make a livelihood in New York. According to Mistress Marley’s piece in Newsweek, after losing her retail job, she “went online and put in: ‘How to make money online as a woman, being seductive.'” She came upon findom and decided to learn more about it. Soon after, she began looking for men who were interested in it. She said that she made $50 from an anonymous sub in her first week as a financial dominatrix. Mistress Marley’s popularity has soared in recent years, to the point where men now have to spend anywhere from $5 to $500 just to have a discussion with her. She even went so far as to say that she will approach males in public, demand their money, and then walk away once the transaction is completed. It’s that simple. Her submissives have paid for and equipped a three-bedroom apartment in New York City for her. They also cover her expenses. She’s also been able to pay off a $5,000 trip to Tulum, her student loans, and financially assist her parents with the money these men have provided her.
Yevgeniya Ivanyutenko- https://twitter.com/yevgen1ya
Yevgeniya Ivanyutenko, a 28-year-old Belarussian woman living in Canada, was conversing with other women on a website where sex workers shared their experiences, advice, and queries one day in 2016. When she first became a cam girl, she signed up for every site she could find, creating a Twitter account for her new character and engaging with people via Skype or Yahoo Messenger. Her private communications, however, were from other sex workers seeking assistance, not from guys looking to hire her as a financial dominatrix. She got an idea in April of that year. She progressed from merely taking money from customers for her professional abuse to showing other women how they, too, might profit by adding “sex work strategy consultant” to her bio. It wasn’t the career move she had planned, but a year later, it’s paying off handsomely. Yevgeniya’s odd professional decision is the product of an equally unconventional life: she worked at both BBC America and CBS before becoming a full-time findomme. She now divides her days between financial dominance and a new venture: teaching other sex workers on how to succeed in the industry. Yevgeniya claims to be the first woman to do so, despite the demand for more readily available information about sex work has clearly existed for a long time.
Lucky Deville- https://www.goddessdeville.com/
Lucky Deville, often known as Goddess or Mistress by her clientele, began her adult entertainment career as a dancer at a Gentleman’s Club when she was 22 years old. The Sydney-based dominatrix fell in love with the sex industry and eventually found her niche as one. Other BDSM components are frequently associated with these relationships, according to Lucky, but they aren’t usually physical. Each sub’s attitude, enthusiasm, and generosity define the path she takes while meeting with them, so each session is unique. However, one thing they all have in common is a desire to relinquish authority. She said that financial dominance appeals to submissive males because it creates a separate power dynamic centered on money. Lucky had previously experimented in sugaring relationships with a BDSM twist, and she had already amassed a large number of costly gifts and payments from subs before she realized this type of connection had a name. To start a relationship like this, a sub must submit a $20 or more tribute to get Lucky’s attention. It also confirms their status as a ‘finsub’ (financial submissive) and initiates a dialogue. Her online sessions last at least 15 minutes and cost $3 per minute for texting or $5 per minute for a video appearance.